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Who told you -you have to make yourself miserable in dwelling on the negative, rather than dwelling on love and joy and happiness? Who told you? Certainly NOT the person who passed, would they want you in despair and anguish and the rehearsal of all the bad events which you cannot change? Would they?

IF, that person told you to stay in despair and grief, do you really feel they were accurate in their portrayal of God's love and forgiveness, if they told you to take a long time? Perhaps the question you should pose to yourself; Did God intend for me to live in Grief?

Would anyone expect years or decades to approach and resolve grief? Would you expect a long period of time? Or, Brief period of time?

But, You probably never considered; if God wanted you to live in Grief, God would have you born in Grief. The assumption that grief must endure, is not God’s plan for you, or me. God’s plan for you was to be born with Joy and Love, and have your free will to choose.

Would you tell a 5 year old child to let it run it's course - like a broken leg or a chronic infection perhaps? And while that child is in grief, and rejects the love and attention from others, to the extent that child is left to be alone, without friends to play or school work to help him advance… would you tell that child that God has the person who passed in God's care,…and now, knowing that responsibility is in the hand’s of god, move into joy knowing you can have a life full of love and joy. In your words, you’re encouraging that child's shift out of despair. In this deepest meditation, hear your own advice, to yourself, calming and reassuring.

Funny, most of us talk to children, better than we talk to ourselves! This opportunity is here to talk to yourself in the best love and forgiveness available.

Bring the conversation home, into your heart and into your spirit.

Bring the conversation into the heart and spirit though deep relaxation, in the calm quiet of the deep meditation where you hear what you need to learn and feel.

Years ago, I learned a more accurate path for clearing grief, just like you would encourage a child…Place that person who passed over in the chair across the room from you, and hear them say, "It was not my choice to leave you." How do you reply to their words? This process is spectacularly effective in deep, deep relaxation.

You were born without hair, without teeth, without clothing. I am here to remind you. Your conception was created with such overwhelming optimism, you were born with nothing but Joy, Happiness and Optimism. Such overwhelming optimism that you created everything in your life from that point. From your birth you created everything, with only optimism.

NOW! It's time you refocus on that optimism; doing and creating today, as your overwhelming optimism for tomorrow screams for your doing, and working and accomplishments with Love, Joy, Happiness TODAY, being driven by OPTIMISM for TOMORROW.

How do you choose to...

BLESS YOUR THOUGHTS.

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