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Are you grieving over the death of a loved one?

It is time to honor that person, by letting your grief go, and attend to those who are here, those who love you.

Who told you, you have to make yourself miserable dwelling in pain, rather than dwelling in love, joy and happiness?

The person who passed never asked you to feel this way. Do you believe they would want you to continue in despair and anguish, being an ongoing victim to the history of events, repeating that story which ended without your permission?

Wouldn't they prefer you choose living in God's love and forgiveness. The question to pose is "Did God intend for me to live in Grief?"

It is natural to take time to grieve. But would those who loved you want you to let years or decades pass by without resolving that grief? Staying in grief is not a testament to those you loved, nor a gift to them. And what of the people left on this earth who still love you- don't you owe it to them to be fully present in them, to bring happiness into their lives?

Your life matters to everyone who is waiting for you to bring your love to them.

If you had a small child with a broken leg or a chronic infection, would you tell them to just let the problem run its' course and see if they got better, or would you take action to help them heal?

What if your child was in grief, rejecting love and attention from others, isolating themselves, resisting to engage with friends or school work- would you just sit by until they "grew out of it"?

It would be your job to make sure they didn't spend their lives there. You would help them realize; the person who passed is now in God's care, and it is time to move forward knowing they have their own life to live, and it can be one full of love and joy. It is incumbent upon you to encourage that child's shift out of despair. If you would do anything in your power to help find resolution for a child in emotional pain and despair, why is it you withhold and fail to insist on that same level of care for yourself? You do not have to continue to live in grief, even one day more!

There is help available. Years ago, I learned an effective path for clearing grief. It is painless and time efficient. The process is straightforward. It can be as simple as placing that person who passed over in a chair across the room from you, and hear them say, "It was not my choice to leave you." Now, how do you respond? Regardless, your response allows you to move out of the blame, guilt, anger and fear. A brief conversation, in a short time. But, why not?

This process is spectacularly effective during deep, deep relaxation. The gift of life is a blessing. Your conception was created inside God's overwhelming optimism for your life. You are born with the capacity for great joy and happiness. Possibility is infinite. From the moment you are born you can create everything from that optimism.

NOW! It's time you refocus on that optimism; to get back the vitality and joy found from participating in life. Your overwhelming optimism for tomorrow screams for your Doing, Working, Creating and Accomplishing TODAY! Love, Joy, Happiness can be yours again. The access is here. This is available to you. It's for you too choose. I invite you to be courageous, and give yourself the gift of yourself. Give your attention to those here, who dearly care for you. Can you be open to hear their needs? When you cannot hear or act on the needs of those who love you, it may be time for you to take action, talking to that child with encouragement to feel and resolve the love and conversations, hearing the permission to live the story of love and forgiveness. This is a joyous resolution. I offer this in the same care you would use to talk to that small child. And in that, you can hear that change as the child becomes the person you’ve dreamt that child to become.

How do you choose to... BLESS YOUR THOUGHTS.

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