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If you believe drugs heal depression, this may become an augmentation to your views.

If you’d like to open a conversation regarding Initial Sensitizing Events; how they are established, becoming more debilitating over time, perhaps this conversation will be a new consideration for you.

Perhaps this view may shed light in a positive way, from a different perspective.

Celebrate those people who are made better by Antidepressants!

But! For those people who drugs have not improved their lives, perhaps this page will give you an alternative point for inspiration and hope. Perhaps even a JOYOUS RESOLUTION!

I have seen many people, who have experienced Sensitizing Events, which establish Sensitizing Beliefs, where over time these emotional life experiences become increasingly debilitating – Their memories and the amount of time and emotional effort invested in rehearsing and reliving that event or emotional story, became overwhelming.

I have seen emotional reframing of the event and belief system occurs, that person moves though life with joy and optimism. The emotional reframing occurs most successfully when the person is deeply relaxed.

When this works, the negotiation to change occurs in HYPNOSIS!

My experience in Hypnotherapy is somewhat similar to Milton Erickson (Paul Durbin comments) and the sense of emotional binds, conflicts of beliefs and Initial Sensitizing Events, which set our belief structures. I believe when our Belief is set by an event, such as parental abuse, we not only ‘live in that event’ but, we find similar experiences and emotions. When we focused upon similar events or emotions, this focus causes the initial event to become amplified and highly debilitating. Many ISEs are not extremely debilitating in the original event. But, overtime, they become so based on the continued association of other life events to those events.

If every ISE immediately caused debilitation, the next day we would witness the debilitation. There are few ISE which show immediate debilitation. But, you know this didn’t hit you overnight! It was incremental thoughts, which became overwhelming. Right?

When we CHANGE what feeling we have from YESTERDAY, we can EXCITE TOMORROW and DO things NOW!

Live in NOW!

The difficulty in this conversation, the explanations and parallels offered for illustration purposes is that we are working in the realm of emotions. These emotions do not have weight of pound or grams, so they cannot be weighed. These emotions do not have color, so they cannot be seen as green or gold. They are not plastic or paper and therefore cannot be … what I’m saying is this is a different realm of evaluation, outside of standard scientific knowledge about the physical world.

Because ISEs are not immediately displayed in debilitating behavior, many professionals may not consider reframing techniques to improve the happiness of the individual. Boy, are they wrong! And You can be RIGHT, Letting go in TRANCE can change your life, just as it changed mine.

Take the LEAP to a NEW feeling from YESTERDAY! Maybe you’re RIGHT! Maybe a kick in the PANTS with a GREAT feeling of the PAST will LAUNCH your rocket for tomorrow! That’s a POSSIBILITY you’ve not explored, have you?

Some of the Initial Sensitizing Events actually caused the person to ‘Convert’ the emotions to physical symptoms in their body. I believe the human mind does this, so it can place the emotional energy outside of the mind, thereby allowing the mind more room for the work is has to do to keep life occurring. Some doctors and call this ‘Emotional Conversion’. The really old term; ‘hysterical conversion’, some old fashioned medical doctors still use this term. Although many don’t like these terms as they imply a personality defect exists. It seems the mind can find an emotional fix to a confrontational event, but later in life, that fix (ation) doesn’t work any longer. That non-working fix, laid in the emotions is where emotional debilitations lay.

EXPLOSIVELY HAPPY? ..OR.. crashing with despair? Would you like a HYPNOTHERAPIST to change your disposition? Or continue to sit, and worry and think and anguish… Your choice? Right?

I don’t believe personality defects exist. I feel the display is the outcome of a decision, which was correct for a particular event or experience, is no longer proper for daily life. But, unfortunately, that specific decision is not easily or readily changed without a negotiation with the subconscious mind. IF a positive negotiation can occur in deep relaxation, present debilitating behavior can be comfortably changed. This change can occur with Joy and Love and Optimism.

Regardless as to what term we call it, the old emotional decisions of the past may keep us unhappy in the present day. If you’re open to finding another process, perhaps Abreaction, Desensitization and Emotional Reframing can be implemented for your joy and happiness to return. And, perhaps to return in a short period of time.

I do not diagnose or prescribe drugs, nor do I ever suggest that someone should change their dose of any prescription. I am not a doctor.

But, what I can offer is the clarity of thought around an identified feeling, which may be uncomfortable and inquire if that person wants or desire to keep that feeling. You see, if someone is asked: Do you like bad feelings? Do you want to keep your bad feelings? The momentum is set into motion to change the feelings around the Initial Sensitizing Event, or Events.

So, if in your experience drugs are not successful in resolving your bad feelings, perhaps this simple conversation, in deep relaxation will permit you to make a very important decision to allow that emotion of perhaps Anger or Fear to be resolved. If you have multiple bad feelings, perhaps 5 or 10 emotions may be reframed in a brief time. The reframing allows the choice of Joy and Happiness to be available in that event, which formerly had anguish and perhaps hate.

Without this experience, you’ve never had THIS EXPERIENCE! Besides, what boring, slow taking psychologist or drug pusher really wants you to be EXPLOSIVELY HAPPY? IF you know that person’s name, call them and tell them THANK YOU FOR YOUR ENTHUSIASM, I want it to be contagious! I want for myself ENTHUSIASM for making others happy and joyful, and when I practice what YOU practice, I will get GOOD at it!

Yes, I have applied these techniques to survivors of suicide, and survivors of rape, and survivors of alcoholism, and to people who have survived other horrors of life. The people who were successful simply concluded they would prefer to be happy, over reliving the anger and fear of these terrible events.

I wish I could give just one pill. Or just one prayer. Probably not just one Hypnotherapy session is required to address every persons multiple needs and required shifts in the way they view the past.

Over the last 22 years, I have seen many miracles in the offering of a new thought, a change in a debilitating belief to an empowering thought. I have seen these techniques release anxiety, fear, anger and rage in a short time. I’ve seen teeth grinding subside in 30 minutes. I’ve seen people learn to say “I love you” when those words could not previously be said. I’ve seen individuals change from acting as if they were hurt little children shift into adulthood. The possibilities are here, if you’re open to receive them.

I can’t pretend to know what you need. But, YOU know what you need. You can achieve it with properly trained leadership, through hypnotherapy.

Please accept these possibilities for you or someone you love. Depression can be a group of ISEs which have been hidden and can be opened, reformed and changed so that living in JOY and OPTIMISM can be real! There is the possibility of opening and changing 5 or more emotions in an hour. With this productivity, would you like to polish, wax or just simply wash 20 or 30 old bad feelings? It’s your choice, right?

Bless Your Thoughts

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It is YOUR choice! TRULY- Bless Your Thoughts.

After Mother’s suicide, I can say Hypnotherapy is JOY RESOLUTIONS.

How would you suggest a child change their perspective? Say those words to that child.

Listen, encourage, recite, and rehearse these caring words to yourself in trance.

Hear your words to that child. Take that advice to your heart.

Convert the child concept to the speaking to your self, with encouragement and love…

Rehearsing this story until it becomes real, for yourself changes your perspective of the past

And

What you expect for the future.

This IS the application of Hypnotherapy.

I am sorry you used to think Hypnotherapy was like Werewolves, Frankenstein Monsters, Vampires and Chicken Clucking.

I’m glad now, you’ve finally heard the truth.